Welcoming back door friends
I hope you are staying warm and safe wherever you are during all of this wintery weather!
Last month, we discussed the importance of opening new doors in the new year. Entering potential opportunities often requires a sense of formality reserved for the front door. This month, let's focus on the less formal back door and the close friends and family members who we want to feel like they belong as soon as they enter.
We all have these so-called “back door friends” in our lives: those for whom we never feel the need to put on any sort of front. They have seen us at our best and at our worst, and they love and accept us for who we are. These are the ones that you tell, “I'll leave the back door unlocked for you!"
It is as important as ever to check up on your “backdoor friends,” especially those to whom you haven't reached out in a while. We can all certainly use a little extra love and care on these chilly days.
Since the back doors of our homes are usually not meant for display, but instead for the use of family and close friends, these spaces are meant to feel comfortable and welcoming. Whether that comes in the shape of cubbies for the kids' muddy shoes, hooks for the dog's leash, or a sink for soon-to-be springtime flowers, back door entrances are are convenient, cheerful and casual. When we think of coming home, we think and feel these things.
This month, I invite you to think about your “back door friends,” and thank them for being important parts of your life and wellbeing. You never know when just a quick message or a small gift left at your dear friend's back door will brighten their day.
Additionally, consider what makes your house a home and what makes you and your family feel most comfortable. Highlight these things in order to make coming home as welcoming as possible for all who enter.
I hope you all stay safe and well,
Davenport Designs, Stylist Eleanor Roper, Linen & Flax Home